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yurki500
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| Posted: Wed Mar 16, 2005 6:56 pm Post subject: |
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still i wanna play dumb, lemme ask this question. thinking of those hundred of married peeps having undefined realtionship, those guys and gurls cheating with their partners(bfs/gfs) back home and the broken relationship and promises.... how difficult is it to resist temptation here? |
Not just here, but anywhere in the world for that matter. here is no different to London, Hong Kong, NY or wherever. If you are moving to a country for a long period and you have a relationship (bf/gf) then it best to break it off if they are not coming with you or planning on joining you later.
No matter what happens, YOU change, the other person does not. You are seeing different things, meeting different people from different cultures, which you bf/gf back home are NOT. YOU change.
OK, here's a leading question: You meet someone who is nice, easy going, sensitive and overall nice, and can offer you a life better than you would with your current b/f. What do YOU do? |
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Marrian
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not unless i lose the spark and magic with my bf, and fall inlove with this 'someone' even if i resisted, then I think it's time to break off with him.
Any sensible comments from the ladies' side?...
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yurki500
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| "love is fickle, love is blind ......................." |
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Marrian
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lolzz  
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yurki500
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| well, anybody would do the same. We all need some one close to us, not far away! |
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Marrian
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  hmmmmm.... yeah....
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leila
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Ziajaveds has said it all. He lost his 10yrs relationship of being 2 yrs apart, I lost my 6++yrs relationship of being 6 mos. apart. Tried to work it out, but couldn't. World just became different.
A bond or committment should not make you suffer of loneliness because you are taken. You need the person to be there, to talk to, to cry on, to hold you and tell you that everything is gonna be alright. It makes a lot of difference.
It never really works especially if you already established a career somewhere else.
And the hardest part of it is, starting anew, getting to know, starting from scratch, adjustment stage. Not again! Its like you have a set of expectations outlined for the next guy and if he can't comply, you're gonna end up heartbroken.
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Marrian
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| And the hardest part of it is, starting anew, getting to know, starting from scratch, adjustment stage. Not again! Its like you have a set of expectations outlined for the next guy and if he can't comply, you're gonna end up heartbroken. |
would that mean, on your experience there's no third party involved? how come you gave up just cuz of the distance, where you know from the start that working abroad will mean thousand of miles away? So how about the love for 6++ years?!
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