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cadmus
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Joined: 09 Jul 2005
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| Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 6:09 pm Post subject: |
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Things we regret most in life are the risks we did'nt take
~my2phils
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Choko
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Joined: 31 May 2005
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| Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 6:21 pm Post subject: |
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Cadmus, that's good advice.
Working in the same company can be a problem.
Why don't you casually ask him out for a drink and be a little flirtatious, you know the old tricks, lots of eye contact, play with your hair, touch his arm etc and see if he responds.
Say that it's a shame you haven't been out in ages and use it as an excuse to catch up, you never know he might jump at the chance to go out with you. If you don't ask, you don't get.
Be strong girl, not overly forward.
There's never anything wrong in telling someone you like them and you should never be ashamed to do so. They'll always be flattered, who isn't.
I can't tell you how many people I know who've missed out on good things because they were too scared to let a person know how they felt - life's too darn short!
He probably still feels rejected. If it feels too daunting for just the two of you to go out, grab a couple of friends and make it a social thing.
Bottom line is, he liked you. You showed no interest. He felt rejected and got fed up trying. Now you realise you like him, so you have to show him before it's too late.
No offense forum guys, but men can be so preWakerleytable you can read them like books, where as women to most men are just unfathomable. So don't confuse him, let him know you're interested.
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Queen22
Brisbane Forum Visitor
Joined: 24 Dec 2005
Posts: 16
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| Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 6:33 pm Post subject: |
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Cadmus, that's good advice.
Working in the same company can be a problem.
Why don't you casually ask him out for a drink and be a little flirtatious, you know the old tricks, lots of eye contact, play with your hair, touch his arm etc and see if he responds.
Say that it's a shame you haven't been out in ages and use it as an excuse to catch up, you never know he might jump at the chance to go out with you. If you don't ask, you don't get.
Be strong girl, not overly forward.
There's never anything wrong in telling someone you like them and you should never be ashamed to do so. They'll always be flattered, who isn't.
I can't tell you how many people I know who've missed out on good things because they were too scared to let a person know how they felt - life's too darn short!
He probably still feels rejected. If it feels too daunting for just the two of you to go out, grab a couple of friends and make it a social thing.
Bottom line is, he liked you. You showed no interest. He felt rejected and got fed up trying. Now you realise you like him, so you have to show him before it's too late.
No offense forum guys, but men can be so preWakerleytable you can read them like books, where as women to most men are just unfathomable. So don't confuse him, let him know you're interested.
Go get him! |
Chocaholic,
I like the way u think!! We're going out tonite (hopefully) with some friends and that will be my cue to let him know i like him (don't worry i won't be too forward). I'll let u know what happens tommorow. Watch this space for updates.....
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yshimy
Brisbane forums AdWakerleyt
Joined: 11 Oct 2005
Posts: 203
Location: Brisbane, Australia
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| Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 6:47 pm Post subject: |
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Go Gurl, Go Get'm
Good luck,
Wish a gurl like you fall into me so i don't keep doing the mind quizes wether she likes me or not and all this hassel.
Choco,
You are right, men are very easy to understand while women...... OH Einstein himself couldn't do it.
Good luck again gurl |
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Fraad
Brisbane forums AdWakerleyt
Joined: 13 Aug 2005
Posts: 429
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hahah okay days of our lives thread ..
but seriously though best of luck Queen. dont over analyze or stress about .. be natural take your time and things will flow .. the worst thing you can do in this situation is involve pressure and/or tension ..
keep it easy |
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Queen22
Brisbane Forum Visitor
Joined: 24 Dec 2005
Posts: 16
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| Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 6:55 pm Post subject: |
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Thanx you guys.
Yshimy, if it doesn't work out with this guy, feel free to pm me  |
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CheckShoo
Brisbane forums AdWakerleyt
Joined: 07 Apr 2005
Posts: 406
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| I think like usual... most men are dogs (only a few good men around), from what I see, they would spend certain time on a girl but after a while if they still don't get into your pants (guys have no patients).... they will move on (to other targets). I would say if this guy really likes you (I mean if he really wants to be your boyfriend), he will not give up so easily. If he lost interest so easily, you should know what he's after!!! |
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HellPoe
Brisbane Forums Veteran
Joined: 01 Sep 2005
Posts: 550
Location: Brisbane
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Queen,
why do u not do it practically with me and then you can write your experience after few months. You can also post your finding with hand on experience (shy wink). I am quite nice , deWakerleyated and very much looking forward to accepting this challenge  ........
Unlike asian people ,i mostly desire for full rights , I hate when someone say" dont touch me ". what is the usage of a girl friend if someone still has to masturb............like Brisbane habibi (naughty wink) .
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