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Queen22 · Brisbane Forum Visitor Joined: 24 Dec 2005 Posts: 16

Hi,

Here's an interesting question: How can you tell if a guy really likes you or if he's just flirting for the fun of it?

Theres this guy that I really like and I think/thought he likes me too. But I'm not so sure now. He used to flirt with me a lot and seek opportunities to talk to me. He used to ask me to join him when he went out with his friends and he used to buy me drinks. Now we hardly talk. I never told him how I felt 'cos he used to talk about girls all the time even around me, a normal thing I was told by my male friends. So, now I think if he ever was interested he may have lost interest 'cos I never showed him that I was interested or that he was just flirting and it didn't mean anything. Worst thing is, I think he's started seeing someone........

What do u think? I'd really like to hear what the guys think.......

aduberdu · Brisbane Forums Enthusiast Joined: 26 Oct 2005 Posts: 89

1st of all this shud be in the romance section,,,,,,,,,anyway.......what i think the guy liked u at the start.....and he was flirtin with u... for him it was like do r die.....if he gets u ,well and gud otherwise no probs..........coz if he liked he wud have never talked abt other gurls around u.....maybe sometimes to make u jealous but not always.....so as u didnt show interest so he backed up coz he couldnt waste more time for u.....well thats wht i thing.......but u know things better.....at the end u have to make the decision Smile

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yshimy · Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 4:20 pm Post subject:

i think you are the only one to judge, usually if he likes you, i think you can feel it. if he is just flirting, i think you can tell that he will seek opportunities to be sleazy with you, but if he treated you with respect, that means he likes you.

I don't agree that he would go for other gurl as he don't want to waste time on you. If he likes you, he would not care about the time it takes to show it to you espcially i tink you were also giving him slow response, but you were giving response at least. as you said you go out with him and his friends and he buys you drinks or whateva.

good luck, i myself get confused about gurl who like me and a gurl who is just being nice.

Queen22 · Brisbane Forum Visitor Joined: 24 Dec 2005 Posts: 16

yshimy · Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 4:37 pm Post subject:

wooo, well, got to be careful, if it went bad it will be bad for long as you get a face to face interaction with him on daily basis and you will hate going to work.
My advice is ... be smooth in developing it, give him opportunities, but don't move by yourself, let him take the move and you accept it. nice smile is good, good morning in the begining of the day and a chat whenever possible. whenever there is opportunity to go out with him whether alone or in group take it. and when in group try to be in side talks with him. give him the chance and then accept it. but don't take the move yourself, as i think gurls are like princesses, they shouldn't approach, they only be approached.

Good luck and keep us updated Very Happy

Queen22 · Brisbane Forum Visitor Joined: 24 Dec 2005 Posts: 16

kPax · Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 1:10 am Post subject:

seriously girl i know what u r talking about...im always confused when it comes to guys..and i never knwo how to approach a guy i like..but ive been through the same thing ...and i was crazy about a guy for more than a year..and i thought he liked me aswell but we just stopped talking and he is with some one else now..i never told him i liked him but i know that he knew..(through some friends)..honestly im happy that we never became a couple...cuz he is not the kinda person i wanna live with the rest of my life

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