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Choko
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I disagree that women always go for the "bad guys" and honestly don't know what the definition of a "bad guy" is. Is it a male who is really masculine, perhaps a bit more bossy or aggressive with others? I certainly hope it doesn't mean they are criminals :)
My advice to teens is to be open to different types of guys, not just ones who fit a template you have created in your mind. For example, "I only date skateboarders.", or "I only date tall guys with dark hair and light eyes." Also, don't only date guys who ask you out - you too should be asking out guys who interest you.
My own experience is that I always went on a date with a guy who asked me out himself, not through one of his friends. (Too weak if he can't ask me out himself!) Even if the guy wasn't particulary attractive or didn't necessarily share the same interests as me, I still went on at least one date so that I could give him a chance and get to know him better before I wrote him off. Many times I went to the school dance or on a date to the movies or something and then realised that the guy wasn't for me, so then told him I didn't want a second date. Other times I was pleasantly surprised and ended up dating for a longer time.
I met my husband and university and he is a "nice guy", a gentleman, shy, respectful (most of the time unless we are in a big fight over something  ). He's very sporty, so perhaps that is where I get my "bad boy" fix. Believe me, when I see him playing sports as well as he does it is a real turn on. Also, my husband is good-looking and always had some women chasing him. Despite this, he wasn't a womaniser and he doesn't have a big ego. So, we are proof that "good-guys" do get the girl in the end.  |
I know   The intuition of a girl is to seek for a man who can take care of her children. ''Bad boys'' arent capable doing that... |
True, but if you're going to put it in those terms, naturistically speaking, then a woman would automatically look for the strongest male with the best genes for her offsping, not some wimpo zoom dweebee man. |
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Defo
Brisbane Forums Frequenter
Joined: 24 Nov 2005
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| Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 5:08 pm Post subject: |
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I disagree that women always go for the "bad guys" and honestly don't know what the definition of a "bad guy" is. Is it a male who is really masculine, perhaps a bit more bossy or aggressive with others? I certainly hope it doesn't mean they are criminals :)
My advice to teens is to be open to different types of guys, not just ones who fit a template you have created in your mind. For example, "I only date skateboarders.", or "I only date tall guys with dark hair and light eyes." Also, don't only date guys who ask you out - you too should be asking out guys who interest you.
My own experience is that I always went on a date with a guy who asked me out himself, not through one of his friends. (Too weak if he can't ask me out himself!) Even if the guy wasn't particulary attractive or didn't necessarily share the same interests as me, I still went on at least one date so that I could give him a chance and get to know him better before I wrote him off. Many times I went to the school dance or on a date to the movies or something and then realised that the guy wasn't for me, so then told him I didn't want a second date. Other times I was pleasantly surprised and ended up dating for a longer time.
I met my husband and university and he is a "nice guy", a gentleman, shy, respectful (most of the time unless we are in a big fight over something ). He's very sporty, so perhaps that is where I get my "bad boy" fix. Believe me, when I see him playing sports as well as he does it is a real turn on. Also, my husband is good-looking and always had some women chasing him. Despite this, he wasn't a womaniser and he doesn't have a big ego. So, we are proof that "good-guys" do get the girl in the end. |
I know The intuition of a girl is to seek for a man who can take care of her children. ''Bad boys'' arent capable doing that... |
True, but if you're going to put it in those terms, naturistically speaking, then a woman would automatically look for the strongest male with the best genes for her offsping, not some wimpo zoom dweebee man. |
Yeah, also true... So girls are looking for a gentle and strong man?!   |
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kat87
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| Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 10:52 pm Post subject: |
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People keep saying that girls and boys in their late teens only want fun. But I can tell you that it isnt true. I want something more and deeper. Now how come I cant get it?
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Defo
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| Posted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 2:24 am Post subject: |
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| People keep saying that girls and boys in their late teens only want fun. But I can tell you that it isnt true. I want something more and deeper. Now how come I cant get it? |
Maybe u are looking too much for it...? |
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mINOR pLEASURE
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Location: Brisbane Australia
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| Posted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 6:36 pm Post subject: Re: Why do I ALWAYS fall for the wrong type??? |
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Im 18. You would think that I would have had some kind of a proper relationship by now, but no...you know why? Because I always and I really mean always fall for someone I just know is gonna break my heart in the end.
What is wrong with me? I really need some help here guys...my longest relationship was less than 2 months!!! Im just so fed up and I can only blame myself. But no matter how much I wanna change, I always seem to fall back in the same trap.
I just dumped a guy today because he was so wrong for me, and I just feel so lost! Please tell me what to do...because I obviously dont know myself.
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youve just dumped a guy because he was so wrong ??? well maybe you've used all your time looking for the rights and the wrongs than actually enjoying the whole relationship... girl dont worry about details much and dont be too technical looking for a good partner is not like buying a computer or a cell phone where you compare specs .... its all about feeling and chemistry .... and dont worry dont try to look it will come girl your only 18 you have the whole world a head of you !!!
for example me and my girl there are lots of stuff that i hate about her like she thinking taht there is nothing far important than watching desperate housewives, and sooooooooo many stuff that can actually make me say WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!! and loose it but each and everytime we try to fight about the stuff we hate about each other we end up laughing about it and sometimes we end up naked and moaning hahahaa if you feel that just having that person around makes you extremely happy even then youll know that he / she is the one ....
there would be times that you will hate him or hate his habits !!!! thats normal !!! thats very very normal !!!! so welcome to this thing called relationship just go with the flow and be happy with it !!!! since your just 18 most prob. youlll experience more puppy love and break ups but just a piece of advice dont take it like your buying a mobile... take it like your hanging out with a friend laugh be happy and never pretend !!! its better to end a relationship if its gonna end smiling and taking with you happy memories !!!
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mINOR pLEASURE
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Joined: 04 Mar 2005
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Location: Brisbane Australia
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| Posted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 6:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Very funny jacky re : HP - and also very wise words of advice. |
I wanted to reply then i thought ,jacky habibi always hesitate to reply ,so let him to do little bit fun
I think i can get girls without having money in pocket. if u have doubt ,lets bet?
do u want me to get choco in 5 working days? |
oh man stop this you make me puke !!!! we have all seen (how unfortunate of us) your photo justa simple reality check !!!!!! YOUR DEAD FCKING UGLY !!!! this tatic you use to boost your confidence doesnt work wake up and smell the shit infront of the mirror !!! YOUR DEAD UGLY !!!! so live with it !!!!
your ugly plus your attitude and wits is not really your strong side so in the language that you will understand .... YOUR DUMB STUPID, RUDE and UGLY !!!! and you will get choco in 5 working days ??? what you will get her to puke ???? sheeeesh!!!
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gangster
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Joined: 30 Dec 2005
Posts: 904
Location: UK/Brisbane
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| Posted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 9:28 pm Post subject: Re: Why do I ALWAYS fall for the wrong type??? |
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Im 18. You would think that I would have had some kind of a proper relationship by now, but no...you know why? Because I always and I really mean always fall for someone I just know is gonna break my heart in the end.
What is wrong with me? I really need some help here guys...my longest relationship was less than 2 months!!! Im just so fed up and I can only blame myself. But no matter how much I wanna change, I always seem to fall back in the same trap.
I just dumped a guy today because he was so wrong for me, and I just feel so lost! Please tell me what to do...because I obviously dont know myself.
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IMHO you are only 18 and appear somewhat immature. Your post is worded and would have more meaning if you were a lot older.
When you grow up, the answers you seek will come without having to ask them. |
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kat87
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Location: Brisbane
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| Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 11:19 am Post subject: Re: Why do I ALWAYS fall for the wrong type??? |
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IMHO you are only 18 and appear somewhat immature. Your post is worded and would have more meaning if you were a lot older.
When you grow up, the answers you seek will come without having to ask them. |
How dare you talk as if you know me. I may only be 18, but you can't just assume Im as immature as other 18 year olds. Age has nothing to do with what I feel. Just because Im not in my thirties doesn't mean that my feelings dont mean anything.
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