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scmegan
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| Posted: Sat Feb 04, 2006 11:23 am Post subject: |
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Why do I ALWAYS fall for the wrong type???
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gangster
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| Posted: Sat Feb 04, 2006 2:11 pm Post subject: Re: Why do I ALWAYS fall for the wrong type??? |
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Im 18. You would think that I would have had some kind of a proper relationship by now, but no...you know why? Because I always and I really mean always fall for someone I just know is gonna break my heart in the end.
What is wrong with me? I really need some help here guys...my longest relationship was less than 2 months!!! Im just so fed up and I can only blame myself. But no matter how much I wanna change, I always seem to fall back in the same trap.
I just dumped a guy today because he was so wrong for me, and I just feel so lost! Please tell me what to do...because I obviously dont know myself.
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Well u r wrong arnie, not all 18 r olds are like u when u were in 70's. Some are much smarter and it depends on the environment u were brought up. Yes 18 is the age where u r border line of adolescent and adult and things can be really confusing. have patience and u will make the right decision.
IMHO you are only 18 and appear somewhat immature. Your post is worded and would have more meaning if you were a lot older.
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The above in bold is what i make reference to. At 18 the only "proper" relationship she may have come across was probably "at School".
Hardly a "whole life experience" dont you think?. When we start to attend "The School of Life" that is the time to start asking these questions, not when we are "at or just out of School". And with respect, very few TRUE "proper" relationship exist at this stage of life. It happens but rarely. |
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pacificsurf619
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Just sell it, then atleast you can buy yourself a carton of icecream to console yourself with 
I might get banned with that one... crap
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Choko
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Well Ok I do have to slightly agree with Arnie on this one. Most of my girlfriends are in their late 20's early 30's and still have problems finding Mr Right! BUT these are intelligent, fun loving, strong minded, awsome women, who through their earlier experiences now know exaclty who they are and what they want out of life and relationships. There's definately something to be said about experience, you have to get to know who YOU are and what YOU want and that only comes with time.
So many of my old school friends married in their late teens early twenties and 99% ended within a few years, because other things like career, travelling, self exploration were put on the back burner and there came a point where they needed to do this stuff and the relationship suffered.
I think a person has more to offer once they are comfortable in themselves and know exactly where they're going in life, certainly I've never felt happier, more content, driven and comfortable than I do now and I'm 30! I'm not married and don't honestly think I ever will be, but I have a great boyfriend and I'm happy with that. |
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giRLneXTdoOR
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| Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2006 12:55 am Post subject: maybe... |
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| maybe you don't see that person like others do. u set your eyes to what you only wanted to see... |
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Leon
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not all the men are the same.. there are good guys deserving your attention and time.
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Dario Western
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| Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 8:30 am Post subject: Re: Why do I ALWAYS fall for the wrong type??? |
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| kat87 wrote: |
Im 18. You would think that I would have had some kind of a proper relationship by now, but no...you know why? Because I always and I really mean always fall for someone I just know is gonna break my heart in the end.
What is wrong with me? I really need some help here guys...my longest relationship was less than 2 months!!! Im just so fed up and I can only blame myself. But no matter how much I wanna change, I always seem to fall back in the same trap.
I just dumped a guy today because he was so wrong for me, and I just feel so lost! Please tell me what to do...because I obviously dont know myself.
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Hi kat87,
Just relax - you're still young and have plenty of time. Don't rush into things. I'm 37 years old and I *still* haven't found a girl that I want to settle down and raise a family with. In fact, I didn't have a serious girlfriend until I was 23 years old.
You need to set yourself some standards both for yourself and the guy that you want to attract. What do you want from the relationship? What traits do you value in a guy the most that you'll want to go out with him?
What was 'wrong' with your last relationship? Did you sense what was wrong and attempt to correct it? Or did you just give up on it altogether without seeing it through with your man? |
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Evad
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What should you do?
Well you could always try getting to know these guys before you start dating them? See if you like them and if you guys have stuff in common, all that.
Alternatively if these guys are breaking your heart then your clearly looking in the wrong kinds of places to meet guys. Try meeting some guys through things you like doing, for example if you really dig reading then just start chatting to some people at a library etc etc.
Also I am in no way trying to offend you but going by the girls that I know the majority of them tend to be pretty shallow when it comes to dating. In other words they go for looks over someone that actually cares / someone who actually has a personality. So maybe give some not so good looking guys a chance?
Although in saying that last part I am somewhat bias because I've been hurt by a lot of girls that I really did care about due to my looks...
Anyways, theres my advice... |
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