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Marrian
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| Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2005 8:33 pm Post subject: long distance relationships |
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My friends reminded me that long distance relationship is impossible to survive here in Australia. Is that so? 
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Kayl
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| Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 4:24 pm Post subject: |
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nothing is imposible is you care enough to try.
but if hte distance is more then a year. i very very very strongly recommend against it. |
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UAQ 846 AM PINOY FM sa AM
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| Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 5:36 pm Post subject: |
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the only key is communication, it must never die out...
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yurki500
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| Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 8:25 pm Post subject: |
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It really depends on the two people involved and how long you have known eachother. If you have not met them for long before you come out, it is very hard as there is no "strong bond" between you.
If you have been together for a while, then you should be OK, but there are a lot of temptations here in Brisbane.
Also, it's not easy being here when things happen as you have no one to talk to face to face. Over the phone is OK, but it's not the same.
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meRIELytes2004
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| Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 8:42 pm Post subject: |
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If you can avoid "long distance relationship" then its good. But if you cant really avoid it then you have to be prepared. Anything can happen, specially if your relationship is new. Im not saying something will happen but anyhing is possible. Just dont stop your good communication.
Cheers!!!
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UAQ 846 AM PINOY FM sa AM
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| Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 9:23 pm Post subject: TRY THIS. |
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| yurki500 wrote: |
It really depends on the two people involved and how long you have known eachother. If you have not met them for long before you come out, it is very hard as there is no "strong bond" between you.
If you have been together for a while, then you should be OK, but there are a lot of temptations here in Brisbane.
Also, it's not easy being here when things happen as you have no one to talk to face to face. Over the phone is OK, but it's not the same.
Good luck whichever way it goes. |
True,...
but sometimes its not how long you stayed or have known together,.. its rather how you understand eachother, and how you guys parted, and how is your arrangements, but then again even how much you wanted it to las or strive to keep it alive, shit happens and all efforts would just be at lost...
my suggestion:
Why not make a nutral agreement, like while your away you'll be friends, then if time comes that you get together and you still feel the same way and both off you are still single, then you can get back together.
GOOD POINTS,.. you go home, and find that he/she is still single and get to live happily ever after...
BAD but STILL GOOD POINT,.... if you or him suddenly decide that you wanted someone new... YOU LOST A LOVER ... YES ... BUT IN THIS CASE, YOU GET TO SAY GOOD BYE TO YOUR LOVER WITHOUT CHEATING, HUMILIATIONS AND FIGHT. (VICE VERSA) SO AT THE TIME YOU LOST A LOVER ..YOU GAINED A BEST FRIEND.
EXTREMELY BAD POINT: HE/ SHE DIDNT LIKE THE OFFER OF AGREEMENT AND DECIDED TO LEAVE YOU,... AND NEVER CALL YOU AGAIN
WELL IF THAT HAPPENS ... LEAVE THE BITCH/BASTARD CAUSE IF THEY CAN GIVE UP ON YOU FROM A SMALL SACRIFICE WHAT MORE WHEN YOUR MARRIED?... SO ... ITS STILL NOT BAD CAUSE YOU GET TO KNOW THE REAL THEM .... EARLY ... GOOD RIDDANCE.....
WELL IF YOUR ALREADY MARRIED ... THEN YOU HAVE TO GET HIM/HER A JOB HERE CAUSE AS WHAT YORKY SAID ON THE FONE IS GOOD BUT ... ITS TOTALLY DIFF IN PERSON.
good luck!!!!!
 M.S.L
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Marrian
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| Why not make a nutral agreement, like while your away you'll be friends, then if time comes that you get together and you still feel the same way and both off you are still single, then you can get back together. |
In that case, where's the COMMITMENT?!  your basically suggesting to cool it off.
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UAQ 846 AM PINOY FM sa AM
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| Posted: Sat Mar 05, 2005 7:11 pm Post subject: not a cool off |
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Cooling off and BEING FRiends are two totally diff. things ,...
when you say cooling off ... as written cooling off!!
it means GIVING UP ,
while when you become friends, your still warm but keeping your doors open, and your love that you feel for eachother would still be there
thats why you two should keep in touch...
its giving love unconditionally,..
love should not be forced nor does comitment...
in this way .... at the end when you find that he/she is waiting then you would know that, that is love,.....
remember YOU CAN NEVER FIND OUT if a person's love is TRUE by restricting him/her you would only push that person away,..
while usually in most relationship,.. specially long distance .... it fails because of lack of trust due to the strains of "comitment" where the string would eventually choke you.
"if you love someone set him/her free... when he/she returns... then you would know he/she's yours .."
and besides.... we have no right to restrict other people of the things they should do.. or feel .... its best to give them a chance to do the things or feel the things you want them feel on their own. (time, self,)
but then again ... thats my opinion ..... we all have diff. opinion ... (avoiding a forum debate  )
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